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Wednesday, June 24, 2009
Let's Talk Toys!
Let’s Talk about what your toy is made of! Please feel free to contact me if you need any help picking the right one out for you or if you have questions!
The first thing you should consider when selecting a toy is the material that is right for you. Each type has some advantages and disadvantages. Not to mention if you have ANY sensitivities or are prone to infections there are some types that are just a better choice then others. The material affects the way a toy feels, the amount of effort to maintain and clean, the life of the toy and also how your body reacts to the toy! The best way to choice a type of toy is to attend one of my parties and actually hold the different ones in you hand! This way you know BEFORE you get it home!
Hard plastic: Many people when they purchase their first vibe buy one of hard plastic. The material makes the vibration very strong and it is non-porous so it is easy to clean and keep clean. Many of the hard plastic toys are loud. When purchasing a hard plastic vibe be sure to check it out for seams. If the toy has seems run your finger over them as hard plastic seams can be sharp. Placing a cotton ball in where the batteries go if you need to muffle the sound of the toy.
Silicone: This one is tricky! I LOVE silicon toys but it is very important to know how much is silicon! The BEST silicon brand is Tantus. I carry Tantus toys in my catalog and they are amazing. Their toys are a special blend and are considered medical grade silicon! Being 100% silicon they can go in the dishwasher, be boiled, and will last a long time. Silicon can be great for people who tend to have UTI’s or other infections as they are easily sterilized after use! Some silicones have softeners in them called phialates. You can normally tell because these have the “new shower curtain” smell. Any item in my catty that has PF next to it means it will NOT have any of them chemicals in it!!!
Glass: It WONT break inside you!!! Glass can be such a fun amazing toy! They are again a great material for anyone with sensitivities! They are easily cleaned and sterilized, either in boiling water, Dish washer, and they can even be bleached. Glass toys are considered “green”. They are going to last along time and require no batteries. You can add a simple vibrating cock ring to one to kick it up! Glass is also an amazing way to try sensation play. You can heat it up in water or cool it in the fridge/freeze.
Jelly: Jelly toys normally feel softer and can feel more “life like”. The problem with Jelly is many of them are loaded with chemicals. That means you have to be careful that you do not have a reaction to them. Another thing about jelly is they have pours. Bacteria can live in these pours causing an infection. Toy cleaners are VERY important to get the deep inside bacteria. Always clean a jelly toy before and after use!
The first thing you should consider when selecting a toy is the material that is right for you. Each type has some advantages and disadvantages. Not to mention if you have ANY sensitivities or are prone to infections there are some types that are just a better choice then others. The material affects the way a toy feels, the amount of effort to maintain and clean, the life of the toy and also how your body reacts to the toy! The best way to choice a type of toy is to attend one of my parties and actually hold the different ones in you hand! This way you know BEFORE you get it home!
Hard plastic: Many people when they purchase their first vibe buy one of hard plastic. The material makes the vibration very strong and it is non-porous so it is easy to clean and keep clean. Many of the hard plastic toys are loud. When purchasing a hard plastic vibe be sure to check it out for seams. If the toy has seems run your finger over them as hard plastic seams can be sharp. Placing a cotton ball in where the batteries go if you need to muffle the sound of the toy.
Silicone: This one is tricky! I LOVE silicon toys but it is very important to know how much is silicon! The BEST silicon brand is Tantus. I carry Tantus toys in my catalog and they are amazing. Their toys are a special blend and are considered medical grade silicon! Being 100% silicon they can go in the dishwasher, be boiled, and will last a long time. Silicon can be great for people who tend to have UTI’s or other infections as they are easily sterilized after use! Some silicones have softeners in them called phialates. You can normally tell because these have the “new shower curtain” smell. Any item in my catty that has PF next to it means it will NOT have any of them chemicals in it!!!
Glass: It WONT break inside you!!! Glass can be such a fun amazing toy! They are again a great material for anyone with sensitivities! They are easily cleaned and sterilized, either in boiling water, Dish washer, and they can even be bleached. Glass toys are considered “green”. They are going to last along time and require no batteries. You can add a simple vibrating cock ring to one to kick it up! Glass is also an amazing way to try sensation play. You can heat it up in water or cool it in the fridge/freeze.
Jelly: Jelly toys normally feel softer and can feel more “life like”. The problem with Jelly is many of them are loaded with chemicals. That means you have to be careful that you do not have a reaction to them. Another thing about jelly is they have pours. Bacteria can live in these pours causing an infection. Toy cleaners are VERY important to get the deep inside bacteria. Always clean a jelly toy before and after use!
Friday, June 19, 2009
Sorry it has been so long!!
UPDATES UPDATES!!
I am soooooooo Sorry I have not posted in a while! So a lot is going on personally and with the business! I have had a lot of great parties and been super busy! Please at any time shoot me an email about something you want me to blog about!! Let me give you some Updates!
I recently found a lot of my old friends on face book! When I first went on that site I was very iffy about it now I am addicted! If you are not on my Face book page please add me!! Look me up under email address fyphudsonvalley@yahoo.com! It is so important to let go of the past grudges and move on with a future with old friends!
I also have the information to put in place a better email newsletter! So make sure if you want to be on my email list that you email me to let me know! I plan on setting it up to go out at the First Sunday of every month.
I am only a couple weeks away from my Convention in NH! I am Super excited! Convention is a huge deal to me. I get to go meet so many of my FYP brothers and sisters from ALL over the US! Not to mention I get to see some AMAZING speakers!
Also after convention I will prob have new items and new information to share with you all!! I will HAVE to do a post convention blog! I love being an IBA with For You Pleasure! It has had a huge impact on my life! After convention I think I am going to work on doing a lot of the ideas I have in my head for my business! When you love what you do you cant wait to do it!
Oh! I was able to be apart of a great conference call with Ducky Doolittle. For you who do not know she is one of the biggest influences on me right now. She is a very special, smart and just all around extraordinary person. Please look her up she is on myspace, face book, u-tube, tweeter, and she does a pod cast. Google her!! Contact me to get a copy of her book, Sex with the Lights On. It sells on our website for $19 but I think EVERYONE should have this book so you can get it from me for $12.00! It will be the best investment you ever made!!
Hit me up with topics YOU want me to talk about! Love you all!
I am soooooooo Sorry I have not posted in a while! So a lot is going on personally and with the business! I have had a lot of great parties and been super busy! Please at any time shoot me an email about something you want me to blog about!! Let me give you some Updates!
I recently found a lot of my old friends on face book! When I first went on that site I was very iffy about it now I am addicted! If you are not on my Face book page please add me!! Look me up under email address fyphudsonvalley@yahoo.com! It is so important to let go of the past grudges and move on with a future with old friends!
I also have the information to put in place a better email newsletter! So make sure if you want to be on my email list that you email me to let me know! I plan on setting it up to go out at the First Sunday of every month.
I am only a couple weeks away from my Convention in NH! I am Super excited! Convention is a huge deal to me. I get to go meet so many of my FYP brothers and sisters from ALL over the US! Not to mention I get to see some AMAZING speakers!
Also after convention I will prob have new items and new information to share with you all!! I will HAVE to do a post convention blog! I love being an IBA with For You Pleasure! It has had a huge impact on my life! After convention I think I am going to work on doing a lot of the ideas I have in my head for my business! When you love what you do you cant wait to do it!
Oh! I was able to be apart of a great conference call with Ducky Doolittle. For you who do not know she is one of the biggest influences on me right now. She is a very special, smart and just all around extraordinary person. Please look her up she is on myspace, face book, u-tube, tweeter, and she does a pod cast. Google her!! Contact me to get a copy of her book, Sex with the Lights On. It sells on our website for $19 but I think EVERYONE should have this book so you can get it from me for $12.00! It will be the best investment you ever made!!
Hit me up with topics YOU want me to talk about! Love you all!
Wednesday, May 20, 2009
Lets Flirt!!
Hey everyone!! Sorry it has been a while between posts. I had a lot of great parties in Poughkeepsie, Hyde Park, and Highland NY causing me to over looked posting a new blog!! Please feel free at anytime to write to me about a topic you would like me to discuss, research or address here. I would love to do a sex toy review post soon. Any of you who have toys that I sell please send me your review of them so it is not just my own reviews! Do not forget to look me up on Myspace, Face book or on my website www.foryourpleasure.com/fyphudsonvalley
Flirting & Teasing!!
I want to talk a little about flirting and teasing! Yes I may sell actual sex toys but I also carry a variety of lotions, potions, and other items that can really be more about setting the mood, creating the atmosphere, flirting, or teasing each other. A lot of people look over how important these things are and how much they can really improve you intimacy level or sexual passion. I asked people where they like to flirt the most and the answer that was kept coming up is through the Internet or over the phone. Even flirting has merged into our very electronic society!
I have home work for you!! Please send me messages and tell me about it!!
For the men in relationships- I want you to take your partner on a date and flirt with your lover like you are trying to pick them up for the first time!
Women in a relationship- Get your self in the mind set of being sexy!! It is more about your mind set then anything else. I want you to make a more on your lover even if this is out of character for you. Send a suggestive email/text flirt with your partner!
Single Women- Go out and flirt with a stranger. Not at the typical bar but some where else… the grocery store, the gym or even at work.
Single Men- Let a lady know you think she is noticeable! Do not do the cheesy pick up lines but a little flirting would be great. Remember that flirting does not have to be sexual it is just about showing that you notice them. Open a door for someone and smile (even better if you were not even going in or out the door when you do it)
What is the difference between flirting and teasing?
Flirting is about getting someone attention and creating a stirring. Flirting can be friendly in nature and innocent. When people flirt it creates a playful feel good mood. A lot of people are proud to call them selves a flirt but would never call them selves a tease. A lot of people also say use the word flirt when it is someone they do not know but tease when it is their partner.
Teasing is much more sexual based. Teasing is all about creating sexual arousal and lust in your partner. Teasing can be used to heighten a sexual experience that is going to occur but also can be left at that high arousal state.
What products can increase your flirtation effectiveness?
Sugar lips-leave you kiss on their body. This is a lip-gloss that will create a tingle on the receiver’s lips. Also if when you kiss them and you kind of suck their lip in a little more they will feel the sensation even more. This way even after your lips are off theirs they are still feeling that kiss!! It also is great for sucking on their nipples when the flirting teasing leads to more! (We have the nipple nibbler not in a lip-gloss but in a container also)
Sweet Snow- this product has many uses and is amazing for flirting and teasing each other. It is an edible body powder that comes with a fun little tickler feather! You can tease your lover with the feather and the powder or you can put the powder on your self and tell them they have to find all the places you put it. It is great for a light dusting on the privates or the chest.. not only does it smell and taste yummy but it makes the skin feel very soft.
Pure Instincts- This oil is for men or women. It makes your body produces it’s Pheromones. Pheromones are the way you attract a mate. The same oil put on different people will have different scent. Have you ever had some one walk by and you almost want to inhale them they smell soooooo good! Scent is important when setting a mood or creating feelings that is why Aromatherapy is on the rise!
How does Flirting and Teasing help Self Confidence?
When you are flirting with someone or they are flirting with you it helps both people’s self-confidence. As the person doing the flirting you are showing some initiative and being in charge of someone else’s response to you. As the person being flirted with it is equally as helpful to self-confidence as it means some one is taking time to notice you and show interest in you. Even if the flirting is not meant to go to a sexual level it can be very rewarding to know that someone is taking that kind of interest in you or has some attraction towards you.
I ask a few people if they thought Flirting/teasing was important in a relationship even if you have been with someone a long time.
Married Female- Very! OMG! I sort of let some flirting go a little too far recently and "Almost" had an affair with my personal trainer. Thank God he was man enough to stop us. He was worried I would ruin my marriage of seven years and he didn't want to be the one to be part of that. My marriage wasn't dull, but there's no attention, no little flirty remarks, teasing, and this caused me to look else where. I've had a huge talk with my husband and confessed EVERYTHING and we're getting over it all and there's more attention now and yes, I feel like a complete child for even thinking of cheating on my husband, but I didn't and to understand my situation a little bit more, I've only been with one man my whole life and that's my husband. Never dated anyone else and this was sort of like a New Me! It felt so good to get attention from other men and now, I know I have to keep it under control but it's so much FUN!! HAHA
Renee Lynn- Definitely. I don't think things that you did when you just started dating should fade away because you get closer and stay together longer. Dating was so much fun, so why stop? I think your long term guy deserves all the special treatment he got at the beginning. Granted things get harder when you have work and bills and live together, but taking just a small amount of time to do something you know makes them smile could improve their day a thousand times over.
Some of your favorite ways to flirt and tease!
Renee Lynn- I love to send Joe tempting text messages since he's so far away. For example I'll just send him a text saying something like, "I'm wearing your favorite thong today". I love how he gets all frustrated because I'm so far away, but it will all make up for it when he comes home. Teasing my husband is so much fun.
Married female- I love flirting at the gym! Well, more of a tease at the gym. I'm taken, so I'll flaunt myself around, then when they come up to me, wanting to talk, I'm like "Yea...I'm doing pretty good... Wanted to come do a quick workout before I go do lunch with my hubby." Then they have that look on their face like "Oh crap!" lol I like the attention mostly! I never had that before, and now, I get it all the time. Makes me feel conceited sometimes!
Jenn- Another great tease is doing a strip tease for you lover or lap dance where you are in control of what they can and can not do. You can allow them to touch or not allow them to as you do your thing. (I do have a friend that I can contact to do a GREAT how to on lap dances and strip teases if you would like to set up a party that includes that)
Here are two tips I took away from a conversation with Ducky Doolittle
When you are out on a date slip way into the bathroom and take off your panties, when you return slide them over to your lover. Now you both are aware that you have no panties on. You may feel each other rushing through the rest of the meal/event! =]
Flirting & Teasing!!
I want to talk a little about flirting and teasing! Yes I may sell actual sex toys but I also carry a variety of lotions, potions, and other items that can really be more about setting the mood, creating the atmosphere, flirting, or teasing each other. A lot of people look over how important these things are and how much they can really improve you intimacy level or sexual passion. I asked people where they like to flirt the most and the answer that was kept coming up is through the Internet or over the phone. Even flirting has merged into our very electronic society!
I have home work for you!! Please send me messages and tell me about it!!
For the men in relationships- I want you to take your partner on a date and flirt with your lover like you are trying to pick them up for the first time!
Women in a relationship- Get your self in the mind set of being sexy!! It is more about your mind set then anything else. I want you to make a more on your lover even if this is out of character for you. Send a suggestive email/text flirt with your partner!
Single Women- Go out and flirt with a stranger. Not at the typical bar but some where else… the grocery store, the gym or even at work.
Single Men- Let a lady know you think she is noticeable! Do not do the cheesy pick up lines but a little flirting would be great. Remember that flirting does not have to be sexual it is just about showing that you notice them. Open a door for someone and smile (even better if you were not even going in or out the door when you do it)
What is the difference between flirting and teasing?
Flirting is about getting someone attention and creating a stirring. Flirting can be friendly in nature and innocent. When people flirt it creates a playful feel good mood. A lot of people are proud to call them selves a flirt but would never call them selves a tease. A lot of people also say use the word flirt when it is someone they do not know but tease when it is their partner.
Teasing is much more sexual based. Teasing is all about creating sexual arousal and lust in your partner. Teasing can be used to heighten a sexual experience that is going to occur but also can be left at that high arousal state.
What products can increase your flirtation effectiveness?
Sugar lips-leave you kiss on their body. This is a lip-gloss that will create a tingle on the receiver’s lips. Also if when you kiss them and you kind of suck their lip in a little more they will feel the sensation even more. This way even after your lips are off theirs they are still feeling that kiss!! It also is great for sucking on their nipples when the flirting teasing leads to more! (We have the nipple nibbler not in a lip-gloss but in a container also)
Sweet Snow- this product has many uses and is amazing for flirting and teasing each other. It is an edible body powder that comes with a fun little tickler feather! You can tease your lover with the feather and the powder or you can put the powder on your self and tell them they have to find all the places you put it. It is great for a light dusting on the privates or the chest.. not only does it smell and taste yummy but it makes the skin feel very soft.
Pure Instincts- This oil is for men or women. It makes your body produces it’s Pheromones. Pheromones are the way you attract a mate. The same oil put on different people will have different scent. Have you ever had some one walk by and you almost want to inhale them they smell soooooo good! Scent is important when setting a mood or creating feelings that is why Aromatherapy is on the rise!
How does Flirting and Teasing help Self Confidence?
When you are flirting with someone or they are flirting with you it helps both people’s self-confidence. As the person doing the flirting you are showing some initiative and being in charge of someone else’s response to you. As the person being flirted with it is equally as helpful to self-confidence as it means some one is taking time to notice you and show interest in you. Even if the flirting is not meant to go to a sexual level it can be very rewarding to know that someone is taking that kind of interest in you or has some attraction towards you.
I ask a few people if they thought Flirting/teasing was important in a relationship even if you have been with someone a long time.
Married Female- Very! OMG! I sort of let some flirting go a little too far recently and "Almost" had an affair with my personal trainer. Thank God he was man enough to stop us. He was worried I would ruin my marriage of seven years and he didn't want to be the one to be part of that. My marriage wasn't dull, but there's no attention, no little flirty remarks, teasing, and this caused me to look else where. I've had a huge talk with my husband and confessed EVERYTHING and we're getting over it all and there's more attention now and yes, I feel like a complete child for even thinking of cheating on my husband, but I didn't and to understand my situation a little bit more, I've only been with one man my whole life and that's my husband. Never dated anyone else and this was sort of like a New Me! It felt so good to get attention from other men and now, I know I have to keep it under control but it's so much FUN!! HAHA
Renee Lynn- Definitely. I don't think things that you did when you just started dating should fade away because you get closer and stay together longer. Dating was so much fun, so why stop? I think your long term guy deserves all the special treatment he got at the beginning. Granted things get harder when you have work and bills and live together, but taking just a small amount of time to do something you know makes them smile could improve their day a thousand times over.
Some of your favorite ways to flirt and tease!
Renee Lynn- I love to send Joe tempting text messages since he's so far away. For example I'll just send him a text saying something like, "I'm wearing your favorite thong today". I love how he gets all frustrated because I'm so far away, but it will all make up for it when he comes home. Teasing my husband is so much fun.
Married female- I love flirting at the gym! Well, more of a tease at the gym. I'm taken, so I'll flaunt myself around, then when they come up to me, wanting to talk, I'm like "Yea...I'm doing pretty good... Wanted to come do a quick workout before I go do lunch with my hubby." Then they have that look on their face like "Oh crap!" lol I like the attention mostly! I never had that before, and now, I get it all the time. Makes me feel conceited sometimes!
Jenn- Another great tease is doing a strip tease for you lover or lap dance where you are in control of what they can and can not do. You can allow them to touch or not allow them to as you do your thing. (I do have a friend that I can contact to do a GREAT how to on lap dances and strip teases if you would like to set up a party that includes that)
Here are two tips I took away from a conversation with Ducky Doolittle
When you are out on a date slip way into the bathroom and take off your panties, when you return slide them over to your lover. Now you both are aware that you have no panties on. You may feel each other rushing through the rest of the meal/event! =]
Where a sexy out fit at a random time when doing normal things. Ducky told us about how she had been doing some cleaning and she needed to clean behind the refrigerator. She put on a sexy out fit and then called her Hubby in and asked him to help her. He was surprised and turned on by her out fit. he was very fast at helping her and then wanted to do more! How ever she finished what she was doing in her out fit and then after she was done they had AMAZING sex. This is how teasing can create a passion or a lust.
Thursday, April 30, 2009
Ordering Website
Check out my order site!! I can even set up your home party or Catalog party online for your guest to order from!!
website:http://www.foryourpleasure.net/Hudsonslove/
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Thursday, March 26, 2009
Anal Sex FAQs - Fresh Advice
Anal Sex FAQs - Fresh Advice
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Anal Play
Anal Play: It doesn’t have to hurt! Girls and guys can love it!
P.S. He is not Gay if he enjoys it!!
A lot of people assume that if a man enjoys anal play, giving and or receiving that he is gay. This is not true!! Being a Gay male is about whom you are attracted to and who you love not the sex acts you enjoy!
Anal play can be very pleasing for a man gay or straight. People tend to associate anal play with homosexual males because it is the most common form of sexual contact between them but it does not mean that all men who enjoy anal sex are gay! Oral sex is the most common form of sexual contact between two women that does not mean that if a woman enjoys oral sex she is a lesbian! It is sad how society sets these double standards or beliefs in relationship to sex and gender.
Lets talk about how anal play can be pleasurable for men and/or women. I am also going to provide at the end of this blog a few items that are great for beginners to anal play! If you order any of the items in response to this post you will receive a 15% discount on them!
Isn’t anal sex painful?
Actually anal sex does not have to be painful at all! Anal sex is something that should be done with someone you trust and you should only do it if you really want to. Any sex act you do just to please someone else not because you want to will not be pleasurable for you! I want to tell you a few tips to help decrease the chances of anal sex being painful!
1. Desire- The only way the you should do anal sex is if you really want to! Do not do it just because your partner wants to.
2. Lube- This is very important as the anus does not self-lubercate. With out lube the friction can be very painful. The thicker the lube the better! Do not use oils or creams!!
3. Entry should be angled- Alot of people want to just plow right in but if you want to make it less painfull entry should be done from an angle this way they are pushing the mussle down on entry.
4. Breathing- focus on your breathing it helps relax the body if you tense up your body will fight it more
5. Communication- talk to each other if you need him/her to slow down say so. If you need more lube add it.
Other tips!! Experiment with your own butt before letting anyone else do it. That way you get use to the idea and see how you feel about the sensation. Have your lover play with it first either with thier tounge or finger. Start with just the tip let the muscles relaxe and then let the recieve gauge the pace in the begining.
Is Anal Play Safe?
Why do so many men enjoy giving anal sex to another person?
Well there are a few different reasons why a man would enjoy this. The anus is a very powerful muscle and the whole itself is a much tighter gripping whole. Many men love the way that anal sex grabs him. Another reason some men enjoy giving anal sex is that it is a dominance thing.
Why would a woman enjoy receiving anal play?
Women can have orgasms from anal sex. Your but is part of all your orgasms and can be triggered by anything that you feel is pleasureable. Some women love the full feeling that they get from anal sex.
Why would a man enjoy receiving anal play?
Ok first thing to point out is the prostate is like the male g-spot. Anal play will stimulate the prostate. Any man can enjoy prostate stimualtion not just gay men!
What are some items that can be used in anal play?
There are many types of anal play items. Beads, plugs, or vibes. The important part of anal play is only use items with a flared base or an anchor outside the body. This is because the muscels in the butt are VERY strong and you do not need then to pull an item to deep.... I am sure you have seen on the internet or heard er stories of things being stuck in peoples butts! Also stay away from beads with string between them!! These strings never really get cleaned and the butt is full of bacteria!! Make sure all items are smooth that if the items have seams run your fingers over them. It is important to keep your butt safe!!
A lot of people assume that if a man enjoys anal play, giving and or receiving that he is gay. This is not true!! Being a Gay male is about whom you are attracted to and who you love not the sex acts you enjoy!
Anal play can be very pleasing for a man gay or straight. People tend to associate anal play with homosexual males because it is the most common form of sexual contact between them but it does not mean that all men who enjoy anal sex are gay! Oral sex is the most common form of sexual contact between two women that does not mean that if a woman enjoys oral sex she is a lesbian! It is sad how society sets these double standards or beliefs in relationship to sex and gender.
Lets talk about how anal play can be pleasurable for men and/or women. I am also going to provide at the end of this blog a few items that are great for beginners to anal play! If you order any of the items in response to this post you will receive a 15% discount on them!
Isn’t anal sex painful?
Actually anal sex does not have to be painful at all! Anal sex is something that should be done with someone you trust and you should only do it if you really want to. Any sex act you do just to please someone else not because you want to will not be pleasurable for you! I want to tell you a few tips to help decrease the chances of anal sex being painful!
1. Desire- The only way the you should do anal sex is if you really want to! Do not do it just because your partner wants to.
2. Lube- This is very important as the anus does not self-lubercate. With out lube the friction can be very painful. The thicker the lube the better! Do not use oils or creams!!
3. Entry should be angled- Alot of people want to just plow right in but if you want to make it less painfull entry should be done from an angle this way they are pushing the mussle down on entry.
4. Breathing- focus on your breathing it helps relax the body if you tense up your body will fight it more
5. Communication- talk to each other if you need him/her to slow down say so. If you need more lube add it.
Other tips!! Experiment with your own butt before letting anyone else do it. That way you get use to the idea and see how you feel about the sensation. Have your lover play with it first either with thier tounge or finger. Start with just the tip let the muscles relaxe and then let the recieve gauge the pace in the begining.
Is Anal Play Safe?
Why do so many men enjoy giving anal sex to another person?
Well there are a few different reasons why a man would enjoy this. The anus is a very powerful muscle and the whole itself is a much tighter gripping whole. Many men love the way that anal sex grabs him. Another reason some men enjoy giving anal sex is that it is a dominance thing.
Why would a woman enjoy receiving anal play?
Women can have orgasms from anal sex. Your but is part of all your orgasms and can be triggered by anything that you feel is pleasureable. Some women love the full feeling that they get from anal sex.
Why would a man enjoy receiving anal play?
Ok first thing to point out is the prostate is like the male g-spot. Anal play will stimulate the prostate. Any man can enjoy prostate stimualtion not just gay men!
What are some items that can be used in anal play?
There are many types of anal play items. Beads, plugs, or vibes. The important part of anal play is only use items with a flared base or an anchor outside the body. This is because the muscels in the butt are VERY strong and you do not need then to pull an item to deep.... I am sure you have seen on the internet or heard er stories of things being stuck in peoples butts! Also stay away from beads with string between them!! These strings never really get cleaned and the butt is full of bacteria!! Make sure all items are smooth that if the items have seams run your fingers over them. It is important to keep your butt safe!!
Here are my Top Anal play pics!
Product # 8460Personal Lubricant - Silicone 2.5 oz.This silicone based lubricant is designed for multiple uses: skin conditioner, moisturizer, a therapeutic massage formula for daily use. It is 100% latex safe, long lasting, odor & fragrance free, non-staining, non-allergenic, never sticky or tacky, and does not block pores. This is a must have! Size: 2.5 Fl. Oz., Material: Silicone Price: $21.00
(This is my personal favorite lube for all sex play or massage!)
Product # 12680X-10 BeadsSturdy, pliable, translucent jelly stimulator beads for total "x-tacy". 11 inches long and 10 graduating beads, with an easy to use retrieval handle. A-11" Price: $11.00
(great starter topy for anal play)
Product # 6420Little FlirtThe design of the ultra-popular Little Flirt features a longer neck to help the plug stay put and allow for deeper penetration, as well as, a tapered base to offer a more comfortable fit. The Little Flirt is the ultimate introduction to the pleasures of anal play. Size: 4" Material: Silicone (WP, PF, HC) Color: Copper, Red, Black (Sorry, not available in Purple)Price: $39.00
(high quaility and great for people new to anal play)
Product # 2888Dr. Joel Kaplan Power ProbeErgonomically shaped, powerful, 2-speed massagers with push button controls and a non-slip grip. Material: Silicone Two Styles to Choose from - Missile or ProstatePrice: $28.00
Jenn DayIBA: For Your Pleasure, Inc.Phone: 845-242-3498Blog: http://fyphudsonvalley.blogspot.com/
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