Monday, March 23, 2009

Porn Porn Porn

Porn Porn Porn! Not just for the men!!

This is another double Standard I have come across in relationship to sex topics and gender. In many cases people find it natural and expected for a man to enjoy porn in it’s many forms where women are supposedly disgusted with it. This is NOT true!! I want to discuss these double standards and some different areas that feed into it.

When you flip through the magazines in the Adult section of a store you always see Playboy, Penthouse, and many others that are similar in nature. You may only find one type that has men in it like Play Girl. Even in TV shows they always talk about men in liking Porn and it causing problems with girl friends or wives. This is a stereotype that yes is true in some cases but not all. A lot of women have no problem with their male Counter part enjoying porn and in many cases they them selves enjoy it also.

What are some of the most common types of porn?

Well the porn magazines that are best known are Playboy, Playgirl and Pent House. These magazines are full of pictures some articles and Bio’s. There are also many magazines that are just written Erotica. Magazines are items that a person buys once and can keep or toss whenever they feel fit. They can be sent as a subscription or bought at stores as individuals. Many magazines if kept in good condition become collectables. Mind you only ones in good condition are worth saving as collectables… ones that show use should not be shared with others! LOL

Now that we are in the age of computers we also have a lot of Porn sites. These sites in some cases have videos, chats, stories, and pictures. One that I know is very popular is www.literotica.com. Many of these sites you must register for. Some areas may be free such as user chats and stories. Where as other areas you must pay for such as Movies, Web cams, or Personals. These memberships are normally monthly. Unlike a magazine when you pay for a website you don’t really get a tangible item you can keep and store. People have to be very careful in respect to what Porn websites and areas they access as many of these sites have hackers on them or viruses.
(Yes-even web/cyber sex can cause viruses… just a different type)

There are also movies! One of the most common forms of Porn is in the form of movies. Movies can be rented from stores, bought from stores, rented on demand or downloaded off line. Movies give you a lot of options! There are movies out there on every type of sex, fetish, and preferences. Movies are a common form of porn that is shared together with a partner. In many cases the movie can be a form of four play. It also can give a couple ideas and help them get in the mood.

I want to point out that there are many of us women that enjoy porn as much as a man would. It is a fact that is can take a man under 3 minutes to get fully aroused where women it can take around 20 minutes s. Porn can really help many women get to the same arousal start as their male counter part.

Porn is not only for straight men or women! There are a lot of homosexual and Bi-Sexual porn. Sadly enough a lot of the Pleasure Porn or Sexual Educational porn is more for straight couples. It is a lot harder to find position guides, or arousal guides that show two women or two men. This is an area I feel the Sex industry should be addressing more. We live in a world of many types of relationships and levels of sex play. I feel that it is time to break the double standard connected to porn and the heterosexual males.

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